I do not like second opinions, especially from people around me because I have to take into consideration that they might be misleading at the very least, if not completely unsuitable for my bad temper. I was never able to take an advice, because I know that people want you to get hurt, and when they do not, they in fact do not care if you will get hurt. Ataraxy is the art of letting go of unworthy things, and second opinions from people is one of them. Instead, it could be useful to think about the two aspects of our behaviour: rationality and emotion, and take a second advice from them where needed, like in the constitutional law revision process: both the Chambers must vote alternatively twice before coming to the definitive conclusion. I believe that is much better an approach.